We confuse our “wants” with our “needs”

This entry is from the old FFT discussion site. It was written by Neil Kadakia.

Need:

1. A condition or situation in which something is required: crops in need of water; a need for affection.
2. Something required or wanted; a requisite: “Those of us who led the charge for these women’s issues… shared a common vision in the needs of women” (Olympia Snowe).
Necessity; obligation: There is no need for you to go.
3. A condition of poverty or misfortune: The family is in dire need.

want

1. To desire greatly; wish for: They want to leave. She wants a glass of water. See Synonyms at desire.
2. To desire (someone to do something): I want you to clean your room.

Now as you can clearly see, need implies a necessity that one cannot live without, whereas want is the everyday material desire. I’d just like to tell you guys, don’t buy something just because you want it. First think about if you need it- it’ll save you a lot of money in the long run. And if you want to spend all that money, then go ahead, but think about the others in this world who need.

# December 13th, 2002 @ 6:01pm in

6 Responses to “We confuse our “wants” with our “needs””

  1. Ashutosh Kadakia 12.15.02 / 2pm

    A little obvious, but two points for the effort : )

  2. Johann Nietzsche 12.15.02 / 5pm

    I disagree, they are nearly one and the same. You want a glass of water because you are thirsty. Not drinking water will cause you to die. You want to live, therefore you need water. Desires are a result of necessesity and vice-versa. Notice #2 on need “2. Something required or wanted;”. Which word to use is a matter of mere preference. Saying “I want water” implies your thirst isn’t great enough to say “I need water”. Essentially, no one needs anything, but we all (or most of us) want(not need) to live and thus a needs arise from this(the need to eat, drink etc…). Blah blah blah, I’m bored

  3. Neil Kadakia 12.15.02 / 6pm

    Johann, you “need” a glass of water if you are thirsty. You don’t want one. Logically, your first statement is faulty.

  4. Johann Nietzsche 12.15.02 / 7pm

    If I didn’t want one why would I drink one then?

  5. Chris Fitzgerald 12.15.02 / 8pm

    Needing is wanting, but wanting isn’t necessarily needing.

  6. Ashutosh Kadakia 12.15.02 / 10pm

    I think Chris fully summarized Neil’s argument.